10 Reasons why your marriage fail

 Marriage is not just a ceremony that knots two persons with each other but also a promise to live with each other forever. It not only attached two-person with each but also the family. But when this marriage doesn’t work, the family also suffers. But what are the reasons behind failure in the marriage? Have you ever wondered? Here are a few points that will help you analyze the reasons behind the shortcoming of your marriage.


Reasons Why Marriage Fails?

1. Financial Problems

Lack of communication with each other regarding the financial problem is one of the biggest reasons that jeopardizes a marriage more than the financial problems. Everyone has a financial crisis but when you start dealing with it alone, the problem starts failing your relationship.


2. Communications Problems

If a couple has a communication problem before marriage, then it is sure that will only increase after marriage. For a long-lasting relationship, you must share everything with your partner, about every problem your face, and about what you feel. 


3. Family Problems

If your relationship with other family members is not good, it becomes all sources of marital problems. In the future, when you have a baby, the thinking of both partners changes, which further leads to rifts in the relationship.



4. Sex Problems

When you don't have the act of consummation by sexual intercourse in your marriage, rifts in your relationship become usual.


5. Friendship issues

It has been analyzed in so many instances that after marriage both the partners start putting more pressure on each other. It all happens due to the loss of friendship in marriage. It is not required to always be like a couple in marriage, friendship is the most important aspect to understand each other.

 

6. Addiction Problems

Any kind of addiction whether it is of drug, alcohol, or gambling is very detrimental to a marriage. As addiction makes the behavior of an addicted spouse abnormal, which makes normal married life impossible.


7. Abuse Problems

Abuse either verbal or physical is not acceptable in marriage. It causes a marital break-down.


8. Personality Problems

The difference in thought process, unsimilarity in behavior, negative personality traits in any of partners are some of the reasons that make a couple incompatible and indecisive.


9. Expectation Problems

Expectations are always bad, even if you keep them with your family members. When you expect others to change their life according to you, your married life becomes impossible. Both the partners should have adapted to changes in quality to live a happy married life.



10. Time Problems

Balancing work and home life is a difficult task. But one should never give more priority to any one of them. One should always try to keep both lives at the same place so that you do not have to suffer in any crisis.


If you want to bring back your marriage life on track or want to remove all the issues from your marriage soon, look for marriage therapy. This therapy will help you to bring back the charm of your love life and live happily with each other. 

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